<aside> 💭 Date With Destiny is a six-day immersive self-development seminar with ticket prices ranging from $5,000 - $12 ,000 USD. I attended Date With Destiny Virtual | Dec 4 - Dec 9, 2020 during the height of the pandemic and paid $4,495.00 for this experience.

I came away with countless insights and more pages of notes than you can possibly imagine. However, one session, alone, of Date With Destiny on Moving Towards and Away Values was worth many times more than I paid for the whole event.

If you are seeing this page, I’m now sharing this incredibly powerful assignment that could radically alter your experience of life moving forward.

I hope that you’ll put as much time, effort, authenticity and sincerity into the completion of this assignment as I did.

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Moving Towards Values Rules & Moving Away Values and Rules Exercise

This exercise helps you identify the emotional states you seek and avoid—and the unconscious rules you've set to feel (or block) them—so you can consciously rewrite your inner architecture.

Understanding Your Values

Our thoughts, emotions, and actions are shaped by our values and beliefs. These drive the decisions we make and the experiences we create in life.

Beliefs and Rules

Beliefs shape how we feel in certain situations, and we identify these beliefs as rules. These are essentially our expectations about what must happen for us to feel a certain way.

The Concept of Values

Values can be categorized as means (external factors like money or family) or ends (the emotional states we truly seek). In this exercise, we focus on ends values—the feelings that matter most to us.

Moving Towards vs. Moving Away Values

Identifying Your Values

Your values guide your priorities in life, relationships, and work. Recognizing them helps you understand what drives your choices and what you avoid. These values also have a hierarchy—some carry greater influence than others, shaping everything from career decisions to personal relationships.


The Exercise

Your beliefs and values shape every thought, emotion, and action you take. Yet, most of us never consciously chose the values and beliefs that guide our lives—they were shaped by our environment.

The Power of Rewriting Your Values